I need to write here

Yes. Must write.  Must post here.
Actually my first time doing a post on a phone instead of the usual lappy.

Susah gak....anyways. ..ramblings jeee

chakkk

 

 

assalamualaikum



 

yes...yes...yes...

 

has been a while...

 

okay. will update more this year

 

no excuses

 

hehehe.... owe it to myself

 

Amin.

how and when to start teaching our kids solat

this is tough yes.. we had to do it right the first time.

 

thanks to sis wardina for sharing her experience

 

Ini antara artikel yang ditulis selebriti dikenali ramai, Wardina di Facebooknya dengan tajuk “BERBALOI PENAT LELAH KU…”

 

 

Dear Mama, Ummi, Mum, Ibu, Bonda…

 

I have to share this with you… because i feel so happy and i feel that all my penat lelah paid off…I started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her 7th birthday…we had a talk…(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6 la…



tapi dari kecik memang selalu ikut2 la kami solat….she hasnt missed her solat since. Walaupun lambat, tetap solat. I made sure of that – because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari kecik memang LIAT nanti….But it is very important to keep this in mind:-

1) kalau kita bagi dia tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong signal – kena make sure – every waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat

2) l Selalu kalau boleh solat together..mula2 memang kena solat together….kalau tak ada rumah make sure an adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat. (hari tu Amna pergi her reading class, i asked her teacher to take her to the surau) -lepas solat time tu lah peluk cium, senyum – i always kiss her at the head and say “Barakallahufiha” Ya Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya Allah….make her never miss her solat Ya Allah…..kuat2 bagi dia dengar….

ps:- kalau kena amik cuti ambillah – bukan waktu exam je amik cuti – buatlah STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke alam 7 thaun dan tidak meninggalkan solat A BIG Thing! “mama amik cuti hari ni sebab nak pastikan yang adik solat 5 waktu sehari!”


3) Selalu cerita how IMPORATANT it is to solat..how Allah is watching us… how we are good Muslims when we solat, how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk kita, bukan untuk Allah…..TAPI selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK solat…acknowledge the fact that sometimes we feel lazy to solat….itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them off….! I tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat! I tell Amna that….we have to be strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER miss our solat…..


4) Awal2 subuh ni memang tak bangunkan, tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask her to solat straight away.(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVE diselang seli dgn strictness)


5) kalau dia tinggal – DENGAN sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just as a reminder. After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want her to remember – and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3 kali baru, i think not bad, sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak ingat, dia yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its ok…but kena solat terus bila bangun.


Macam ni ceritanya, i told Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu Asar kat sekolah….tadi memang datang lambat…i was loking for her..and guess what????
She was actually praying her Asar prayers…sorang je kat dalam surau tu….i wanted to pengsan and cry…she did all by herself…. i pun told her how happy and how proud i was of her…i tanya dia kenapa? dia kata “Amna ingat apa Ummi cakap”…..cair nya hatiku ini.


Apa lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia….and called nenek at Australia…now im sharing with all of you!!! Because i want us to raise generation of good Muslims that are disciplined, smart, intelligent -that remembers Allah because the world so BADLY needs good QUALITY Muslims like this!!!


And the foundation is – to start them off right – solat at SEVEN! Yes just as how Rasulullah asked us!I love you all!!! Good night….. But the key to all this IS Mak Ayah KENA dan WAJIB solat dulu…anak ketam tak boleh diajar berjalan terus…fahamkan?

 

wonderful sharing by her,

 

I think the key is to be istiqamah. my izz nur is 8 and zikry is 7 but I have a very long way to go. I needed to be strong for my darling daughter and son.

 

Semoga Allah beri petunjuk dan kekuatan padaku. Amin

time flies

its been a while

time are like super fast for me

and time flies like nobody cares

went to look at the 2010 photos.

notice how much my kids has grew up.

 

 

 

 

and now 2013

they have become older and wiser of course

they have now another little brother with them

and I love you both still as much

and you both has been so wonderful as the big sis and big brother

so proud of you

 

 

and rayyan loves you too

 

 

May Allah bless us all and for my children to become the best in what ever they do. Amin

 

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yup ......feverish...examish....busyishh....
i just cant get on with anything else at the moment...
had spent all my waking moments buried in assignments and books and etc..chores..
fuhhhh....

takdir

life is full of surprises. we sometimes just accept it as it is and sometimes go with the flow but at times we broke down and failed ourselves. we lost our  battle which is sadder.. without a fight.

Allah test us relentlessly and that is the purpose of us living here now. but we should fight for what's right and work for what we want and give our best in whatever we do. than we should live it to Allah as He knows what is right for us. that's takdir or destiny or fate. that's out of our control.

Think Allah as He knows best.